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Tuesday, October 29, 2024

My Dupe For Repair Vita Oil

 I fell in love with the first (and only) bottle of the Repair Vita Oil that I got from Making Cosmetics. At that time (2021), I paid less than $20 for an 8.4-ounce bottle that lasted for MONTHS.


about $2.14 per ounce
 I was so happy to find something so good on my aging skin. I think it wasn't until several months - maybe even a year or more - that I needed to reorder. Well. Child. 

about $43.40 per pound
and 11 LBs is ONLY option

Who has that kind of Elon de Bezos money???? Don't look at me. I was rearranging things in my budget to get the twenty-dollar bottle! Obviously, MC decided to ignore the smaller customers and go for selling in bulk.  (Even if I could afford the stuff, I wouldn't indulge. That kind of excess is morally stupid, no matter how much money you have!)

Okay so... it was time to improvise. Actually, after I thought about it, I realized I should have done that in the first place. It was simple to find the ingredients and, because I already use oils for my skin and hair, I had most of them in my pantry and a couple of the missing are those I don't use anyway. This ended up being my base blend:

The only thing I did not have much of was the Rosemary. Apparently, adding just a very little bit was good enough. Because my skin and hair aren't crazy about coconut oil, I omitted it and, because I am me, I didn't worry about the other ingredients because I was testing the blend as I went. When I got to the Neroli, I found I liked my blend much better than the MC version.

repurposed a good bottle.
This is after aboeut a month's use

Of course, I made 2 variants of the oil because I happened to have some vanilla bean oil that I'd been infusing in sweet almond oil for several weeks. I added a little of that to another bottle of my Vita Oil blend (which I call Skin Food!) and it is lovely. I was worried about the vanilla because I've never used an infusion on my skin before now but it turned out nicely and has a really faint delicious scent.

If I add up the ingredients used to make the 2 one-ounce bottles I already had, I would guess it cost me less than $0.40 to make all of it. You can see why I will never buy any more from MC...

If you decide to make a DIY oil and can't figure out what percentage of each ingredient to use, ask ChatGPT. It gave me percentages and drops. Okay. That's one safe use of AI, I guess.

I now have 3 oils (and will be making more until I run out of ingredients). I have the one I use on my face every morning; one that I use in the evening; and one that I will be using during the dryer winter months.

Morning Oil:

  • Plum kernel oil (which feel amazing and absorbs so well)
  • Rosemary oil
  • Pure Vitamin E oil
  • Coconut oil (just a drop of the fractionated version)
Evening/Overnight Oil:
  • Plum kernel
  • Rosemary
  • Vitamin E
  • Vanilla bean (oil from a sweet almond infusion)
Dry Weather Oil:
  • Plum kernel
  • Jojoba
  • Vitamin E
  • Helichrysum (and E.O.) ~this smells angelic~
  • Neroli
  • Sweet almond oil
(I use the Dry Weather formula under my Nivea cream.)

And, no matter what time of year it is, don't forget to use sunscreen...

As I said, because I have always used oil for my hair, skin, and cooking needs, I didn't need to buy much. One recipe I saw in a forum called for EVOO mixed with tea tree and coconut. I think that one was for combo or acne-prone skin (?).

It absorbs even more after 3 or so minutes
Anyway, I am glad to say goodbye to MC's Vita Repair oil. I think they figured out how popular it was becoming and so they upped the minimum quantity and/or price. If I can't trust the availability of a product, why even bother falling in love with it?

Peace
--Free

P.S.: There might be some discrepancies in this post. After I wrote the original draft, I played around more with my formula, so I (clumsily) have made some changes to this post.


Saturday, October 19, 2024

**REVIEW** Leather Backpack/Rucksack From Komal’s Passion Leather

Before the purchase:

 For the first time in about 12 years, I am getting myself a new backpack - or as I heard our European cousins call it, "rucksack". 

Whatever this one is called, I think of it as more like a backpack-purse combo.  My previous backpack was made of canvas and nylon. It was great and lasted for around 6 years (maybe more). 

That old backpack made a lot of trips between home, the library, work, travel to and from the Lower 48, and other outings - all in the mostly cold and/or damp Anchorage weather. I think it might have lasted longer if I'd taken better care of it. I never really cleaned it (beyond wiping off any water and spraying it with odor killers) or babied it in any way. It was a great bag. It's just beyond beat-up-ugly now and somewhere in my brother's storage.

This new bag though... Oh boy, I have high hopes for this one. For one thing, it is made of leather (water buffalo, no less) and made for rough duty. Of course, I will be babying this one as far as cleaning it and keeping it conditioned. 

Even though I have a really nice and very sturdy tote, I wanted this one to replace the old pack for when I travel. It's not like I can afford to be a jet setter, but I do visit my family in another state and my local family and I drive quite a way back and forth to some of our doctor's appointments. I figured, at my age, get a bag that I will (hopefully) never have to replace. And, also, let me quit fronting - I really just wanted this bag! 

So I will not give my first impressions about this bag. When I get the bag, I will complete the review. Let's go.

Pre-impressions:

When I saw the bag online, I loved the design. From seeing a different bag that belongs to a neighbor, I expected quality materials. However, from the photos of this particular bag, I couldn't truly sense the size. Also, there were no photos of the inside of the bag.

The description states that this is "Grain Water Buffalo Leather" which would make one look twice. "Grain" indicates the longevity and durability and can be "full grain" (highest in quality); "top grain" (2nd highest) and the commonly see "genuine" (the lowest quality). However, Komal's also indicates elsewhere on the product page that this is "full grain washed" leather. That's reassuring. (This link gives more info on grain types.) 

This is a collage of partial photos of what I could see online. No matter how hard I tried, I could not find photos of the inside or of it on a person's body. That would have been nice for an idea of the real life size. The bag is described online as "12 inches wide 15 inches high and 6 inches deep." I have trouble visualizing from given dimensions. Is that just me? 

I knew that this bag was considered to be rather large for use as a convertible backpack/purse but I did want something that, if need be, could hold my laptop. Remember, I plan to use this for long road trips and possible plane travel - maybe even long-distance bus travel...

The ordering process was more than decent. I liked the fact that the price of the bag included shipping and personalization - expedited shipping at that... 

As soon as my bag had shipped (well, a few days after), I got a nice email from someone at KPL. They thanked me for my business and let me know that they had gifted me a leather journal in the order. Wow, right? When I was reading Amazon reviews of KPL products, I'd heard about the thank you letters but to get a gift too? Nice.

Receiving the bag:

The bag arrived with an added pleasure. As they said the would, KPL gifted me with this gorgeous leather-bound journal:

look at that binding!!!

This buffalo leather is SOFT!!!

The paper is super-high quality. I was blown away that they enclosed a gift at all but the fact they sent something this nice... I'm telling you that if you have a journal enthusiast in your life, this will rock their world.

But, back to the bag...

Since this is the first thing I've owned (or even seen) made of buffalo leather, I was surprised that it was so smooth on the surface. Maybe I was worried that it would be rough and, real-live-buffalo-like??? It's not. 

Of course, since this is brand new, it's stiff. The first thing I did was to coat it with mink oil. I'm probably going to do that every day for the next week. I can tell you that the leather feels really nice underhand.

By the way, I am on my second day of using the bag. I have it stuffed, and I can say that it handles the punishment well. I like how much the inner pockets can hold and that front flap is a good spot for my phone, chapstick, and some throat lozenges. 

I said that I would oil it daily. I oiled it as soon as I got it and again this morning. I can already see how the mink oil has very slightly darkened it. I love that! 

I went extra on the initials...

Before I finish, there is one more detail that I want to point out. I tend to carry the pack with one strap over my shoulder, and I so admire the sturdy way that the strap is anchored at the bottom.

both straps 
are anchored like 
this at the bottom

That's genius.

I did get the personalization and... I should have just gotten my 3 initials instead of the first 2 and my entire last name, but I am always doing too much! If (hopefully, when) I get another tote (I am looking for another, slightly smaller on that is more purse-sized), I will stick with the 3 initials. 

Guys, I do love this bag so much. I feel like I have gotten hold of one of those cherished But It For Life items that Redditors talk so much about. This bag is one that will get better and better with age.

Peace

--Free


DISCLAIMER:   As usual, I was not paid/compensated in any way for this review. My views, both positive and not, are my own opinion. 


Thursday, October 17, 2024

Buying Best & Buying Less

Anyone who knows me even fairly well knows that I love purses. They don't have to be fancy or pricey or trendy, they only have to catch my eye. Of course, most of my pricier purses (handbags, shoulder bags, wallets, etc.) have either been gifts or bargain buys. As I already said, I don't love bags that have highly visible branding. Most of those items come off and tacky looking. It's like the owner is shouting, "Look at me! Look at the name on this bag!" 

Since I don't live among the wealthy, whenever I see someone with a loudly branded bag (or piece of clothing), I think "show me you are broke and tacky without telling me you are broke and tacky".  Call me Judgmental Judy, but, it's one thing to want a quality bag and another to want just anything that you think will impress people. (And most people with any sense are not impressed; they just feel bad for you.)

Paid $25
(from $170-$210 originally)

That tote up there is so far my all-time favorite. When I first saw it, I didn't know it was a Coach and didn't really care until (I saw the description and checked authenticity). Like that mattered! I loved the color and that front pocket and knew it was perfect for my laptop and notebooks. I paid a whopping $25 for it, and it's the sturdiest tote ever. All I have to do is wipe it down every now and then with mink or jojoba oil, and it looks brand new. I rock that bad boy to the library every time! The straps hold up under an incredible amount of weight. I have lugged that thing in the heat, rain, and snow back and forth to the library and just look at it. On the other hand, I had a really cute pleather bag that lasted a year or so, still looking mostly good, but the stitching on the straps started getting dangerously weak. The bag cost maybe $12 off and end cap at Fred Meyer but it would have been more expensive it my laptop had hit the ground...

Back to speaking of brands, I have talked about the Coach bags I inherited from my late sister (and my flea sale "Foach" bags!), but I have been carrying one of my favorite purses for the past couple of months. It is a Liebeskind Berlin bag that I absolutely freaking lucked out in finding. Once again, I was too ignorant to realize what I had (and still can barely pronounce or correctly spell the name). I got it off Poshmark for (~let me go check again~) $28. After I bought it, I looked around, I realized that these bags are sort of on the pricey side - not just for ego points but because of the materials and workmanship. Talk about quality.

As I said, I didn't know anything about the Liebeskind brand, but I loved the bag right away. For me, spending almost 30 bucks on a non-necessity is a big deal, but, boy, am I glad I did. If need be, I can sell that purse for at the least $100. But I had no idea. That was a lovely and lucky purchase.

I recently fell in love with another bag, and it's from Berliner. Unrelated to the Liebeskind brand, Berliner has been described as being more rugged while Liebeskind is more, maybe, "sophisticated" (?). I like the Berliner brand for the same reason I like Liebeskind. I like the look and quality. 

I slowly tanned it with sun & mink oil!
Paid $28 (approx. $200-$400?)
The only thing I was tempted to buy during this year's Prime Day was a Liebeskind or Berliner backpack purse (or "convertible" purse/bag). I have been wanting that kind of bag for forever. The problem is that the cheapest of either brand was around $150. Yeah, that ain't gonna happen. The best I could do was pull together about 75 bucks - if I cut back on the month's groceries and did not get the 3 or 4 pairs of pants I was planning on. That would be worth it, but just thinking about spending $150 on a purse gives me a fit of the vapors and makes me clutch my non-existent pearls ...

Instead of spending the money, I was going about life, celebrating that there are less than 80 days til January (the month I get my teeth, should the good Lord be willing.) Yay!!! 

Anyway, One morning, I was talking with one of my neighbors at the mailbox. I kept admiring the gorgeous tote she was carrying. I mean, this thing was of some kind of beautiful, soft as silk, distressed-looking leather material. It was a medium-sized tote and she was carrying it as a purse.

Now, I do love a leather bag, and this particular material one was really different from any I'd ever seen. When I asked, she told me she'd gotten it when she lived in Illinois - which is practically next door. She's liked the tote so much that she'd gone back to get a briefcase for her college-graduate son.  She hadn't robbed a bank for the money She said she got both from a place called Komal's (actually, it's Komal's Passion Leather) when she lived in Illinois and it was super-affordable. This was one of those "tell me more" moments.

Now, "Affordable" means different things to different people. To Bezos or Gates, a Rolls is affordable. I'm not hating, but there are times when a good bag of coffee beans are off the table for me! As does my neighbor, a lot of us have to do quick math to figure out if we are getting brand name or generic food items... 

Passion Leather has a website, of course, so I did a little browsing and, hot dog, was my neighbor telling the truth. Her bag, which was a type of tote (like one used to carry light books or a smaller laptop), was similar to one I saw for under $65. Not only are the bags affordable but, if they were all as nice as the neighbor's, they were my kind of affordable (mostly).

Lodis wallet w/RFID $15
(approx.. $70-$80)
The impressive thing is not just that the bags (I didn't really look at anything else, but there are lots of other items) are affordable, but that the quality is amazing. Seeing my neighbor's purse and getting to touch the leather and hardware, I'd have sworn that she'd paid at least $100 or more. I mean, the bag is made of water buffalo. What?!?!? That was a first for me. My cow skin Liebeskind bag will last forever, but I'm sure water buffalo just might outlast it.

And, guess what, while I was looking around, I saw a backpack purse - just like the one I've dreamed about. And it was a flat $80. Not $80 plus shipping or taxes. It was $80. And I could get it personalized for free. 

I almost hurt myself going over to rearrange my monthly budget! I mean, I can do without paper towels. I can use the cheap laundry and dish soap this time. I can make my coffee last for the next several weeks (it's a good time to drink more water!). 

By the time I finished, I was still hesitant to spend the money on a bag - even a good bag - so I put the backpack on my "wish list" and went about making dinner. I told my sister-in-law about the bag and that I'd had to leave it where it was. She got all excited and reminded me that I had finished paying off one of my bills recently. Guess how much that bill was? Sixty-some dollars.

Long story short, I ordered the bag. Even though I managed to have the money, I still cheaped out on the paper towels, soap, and coffee. No need in losing all the ground saved by paying off that bill...

Again, like with the Liebskind and Coach, the Passion Leather bag has no loud and tacky branding. I'd rather not be a walking billboard for a money-hogging designer. We all know that there are HUGE profit margins on cheap-to-make designer bags. I'd rather have something with obvious quality and workmanship - no matter what name is on it. And I like having something from a smaller business.

By the way, my SIL reminded me of something else. She said it's better to pay more for a bag that will last than to pay to replace one every year. That makes so much sense. And I do tend to keep good things for a long time. That Coach bag from my sister is at least 20 years old. My Liebeskind is never going to not be good. That thing will probably get passed down as long as there are descendants in my family. And I already told my nieces to make sure their kids get my new backpack and the other purses I've been collected over the years.

I have a new saying, "Buy best to buy less". 

Peace

--Free

P.S.: Of course, I will do an update to show the bag and talk about it a bit! I will probably even do a review.

Thursday, October 10, 2024

Amazon & Walmart "Sales"? Maybe

 Well, it's that time of year. Amazon just finished their "Prime Day" and Walmart is just getting started with "Deals" day. While Amazon did a little bit of exaggerating here and there, Walmart put them to shame.

Did I shop Prime Day? A bit. I only bought things I needed and things where I knew the non-Prime Day price average. But I stayed so far away from Walmart's "deals" that I almost fell off the globe.

Amazon did have some decent price drops but the search was arranged in such a way that so many other things caught your eye. (We will talk another day about Bill-Trill Bezos cheaping out on the Amazon search engine. Oh, we will talk!) 

To be fair, I found the biggest Amazon exaggeration trumpeted (as savings) on another site. I immediately spotted the forked tongue because I actually bought this item last month when I got my new phone.

From "Market Watch Picks" today

And... what I paid when I ordered on Sept 27 (delivered the 29th)
Not $29.00

As you can see, either that Prime Deal price hit 14 days before the actual sale, or I am hallucinating. 

However, I did find a few things that were an actual sale on Amazon. I didn't score any huge savings on things I normally use (regular household stuff), but I did notice some great savings on things I have on my "Dream List". There were handbags that I can't afford, sale or no sale, but that I know had big price drops. Of course, that doesn't help me, but it shows that Amazon had some actual sale items. By the way, if you want to know the prices on luxury goods, ask any broke person you meet!

Some of the other stuff on sale at Amazon ran from "Meh" to being just plain junk. In another case of something I previously bought that went on sale, there were some phone cases. The thing is, I bought one of those cases in September and it was trash. It did go on a bit of a sale but it wasn't worth the original or the sale price. I returned mine when it started coming apart after just a couple of days. It's one of those things that belongs in a thrift store "Under $0.99 Bin"...

But back to Walmart telling their whoppers. I can't believe they have the nerve to advertise some stuff as being on sale. Trust me, I know Walmart (as a shopper) better than founders - and, yeah, I know that's nothing to brag about - and these items are an example of liar, liar, pants, house, and car on fire.

These tops are so blatantly barely worth the so-called sale price that it hurts my eyes to look at them:

Ain't nobody paying $60 to $70 for that. Not from Walmart

That was such a huge fish tale that I was left gaping at the page. That was a lie worthy of my uncle "Louis" and he lied so much we had a saying in the family that went "if he says the sky is overhead, you better go check". Yeah. Stop it, Walmart.

Anyway...

I must say that I am really pleased with the restraint I showed during this year's Prime Day. I spent less that $45 and that was for things I normally get for the house. Look at me, over here living within my means!

Peace

-- Free

Saturday, October 05, 2024

I'm Rediscovering Blackstrap Molasses

 I have a habit of storing and losing things in the room that is my mind...

Recently, I have been fighting some sort of upper respiratory situation. It robs me of sleep hours because I wake up coughing. That lack of sleep leaves me dragging all through the day. And I feel just generally "blah" and "bleh". I already have issues with fatigue, so this is not helpful. 

Here comes the part where my mental librarian comes into play. Just when I can't think of anything else to do for a situation, the Librarian finds something hiding in a corner of my mind and - Whoop! There it is!

I recall blogging a review of a brand of blackstrap molasses. Back then, I had recalled my mother having used the molasses as a remedy for all kinds of things. Well, I forgot all that until the Librarian went to work.

My mother was right, as she often was. Blackstrap molasses is like a magical remedy for fatigue - or at least it has been for me.

Anyway, I have been adding some 'strap (what old folks say) to my morning coffee, afternoon chocolate, and even to my pinto bean stew. After about a week, I was feeling better. I'm not running marathons or climbing K2 but I am not dragging tail all through the day. 

Since I only vaguely remember some of the things old folks used 'strap for, I collected some information from online and as the black folk (circa 1960-70) and the young folks today say: "Don't sleep on this".

Just a few of the uses for 'strap mentioned are:

  • relief of anemia (because of the nutrients)
  • skincare (anti-aging, exfoliating, softening)
  • hair conditioning (antioxidant mineral)
  • reducing gray hair (because of copper)
  • arthritis relief (because of anti-inflammatory properties)
  • ADD/ADHD (because of relief of mineral deficiencies)
  • menstrual remedy
  • a replacement for sugars in cooking and baking
Still, when you are using this in food, don't forget it does contain sugar, sodium, potassium and other things that certain individuals need to limit.

As I said, I like adding this to coffee and tea. Since I have been using less of my sweetened creamers and opting for half and half instead, the molasses adds flavor. And sugar, of course! 

I am going to have to stay in the habit of adding the molasses to some of my consumables. The change in my fatigue is pretty astounding. And I don't want to overreach but I think that my mental health is a bit better. Whenever I get extra fatigued, I tend to feel more depressed and anxious. Maybe the energy boost is the reason those things have abated. At any rate, I feel better.

Now I'm going to go look up some recipes for baking with 'strap.

Peace

--Free


P.S.: I don't know if this is something Mama knew but she was using the unsulfured version of 'strap. Apparently, that is the best kind.


DISCLAIMER: I should not have to say this, but... I am not a health (or any other kind of) professional. You should always check with your healthcare team before taking advice from anyone on the internet. Use your common sense or borrow some to use.

Saturday, September 28, 2024

From the S8+ to the S24+...

 ... Is a long way!

I mentioned needing to get a new phone - after almost 7 years and 3 months mileage on the old one. Talk about "ride it til the wheels fall off", I wish I had as a good a relationship with any person as I did with that phone!

My biggest concerns when looking for a new phone were the usual: cost and features. Well, I chose the S24+ and it's only adding around 20-some dollars to my phone bill for a while. However, 20 dollars to someone on my budget is more than it is to someone else...

Now that I actually have the new phone, I am having to learn how to use all the new Android features. A lot of things have developed over 7 years. My brother joked that I must feel like someone going from using a  horse and buggy to learning how to drive a stick shift. That's funny but kind of true.

Back in the old days, whenever I upgraded a phone, all I needed to do was insert the SIM card into the new phone and power down the old phone. That's changed. I had to actually go online and go through a deactivation-activation process.

Another thing that upsets me is that my poor old Gear S2 watch won't work with the new phone. It won't work with any 2024 device. So now I have no smart watch. That's not a big loss since I took it off my phone plan at least 4 years ago. Since then, I'd only been using it on the home wi-fi and for the Samsung Health features. I don't really have any other watch except one I got from one of my brothers but the battery on that died. 

My cellphone carrier was really annoying when I was buying the phone. I couldn't get to the check-out page until I'd gone through several "do-ya-wanna" pages. I was ready to scream as I skipped past the offers for adding another line, getting a deal on a smart watch, temptations of fancy phone cases and other accessories. I just wanted to get checked out and get the financial hit over with as quickly as possible.

I have to tell you that I was really tempted to go for the S24 Ultra - only because it has the S-pen and I haven't had a pen for my phone since my Note died... But I noped right past that more expensive phone and I'm pretty happy with the one I got. I'm still learning how to use some of the features, but I am happy with it. After all, I'm still going to need food and medicines every month more than I need a pen.

One of my online acquaintances ragged on me about picking the Cobalt Violet color over the Amber one they like so much. It really doesn't matter what color my phone is and it never has. When I get a phone, it immediately goes into a protective case and I never see the color of the phone again. I did pick out a case in a pretty shade of red. I'll be looking at the case from now on.

By the way, this is one phone that needs to be in a case. It's so slippery... 

Hilariously, when I first unboxed the phone, I was ready to make an irate call to someone in customer service. That's because when I thought the included cord had a defect. Both ends are USB-C type and it's called a "reversible" connection. I never saw that before and all my charging bricks are for cords with a different connection. My brother (when he got through making another horse-and-buggy joke about me) explained that this is the way things are now - "in modern times". So I had to order a brick for the "modern" cable.

Anyway, after I get up to speed with the phone, I have some iPhone humor to throw at my brother. 

When I want to really irritate him, I refer to iPhone users as "iPhonies". Yeah, he hates that one.

I will never tell my brother (and a nephew iPhoner) that, for 2 seconds, I thought about joining their cult this time. The price gave me pause and, really, I don't like change and going from Android to iPhone (or the opposite) is too much change for me.

Peace

--Free

So Glad I Cheaped Out on Electronic Accessories

I will never tire of bragging that I kept a cellphone intact for over 7 years - especially to my iPhone buddies. My next brag is going to be how I cheaped out on some accessories.

When I got the S8 Plus way back in the olden days, I also got a Gear watch as a "bonus freebie". The watch was not much of a freebie since in order to fully use it, I had to pay for a line. I did end up getting rid of the line after about a year and just used the thing with wi-fi. That watch still works but it won't work with any devices newer than 2023...

As I was trying to chose a phone this time, I was momentarily tempted to get the S8 Ultra instead of the S24 Plus - just because the Ultra comes with the S-Pen. I realized how silly a decision that would be. I loved having the S-Pen with the Galaxy Note - this was a really long time back - but while I did use it to take notes, I mostly used it to play games and to, well, just have the fancy pen. So silly.

Well, I did not get the Gear watch or the S-Pen. But I did get a watch and a stylus. All together, the two cost me under $35. Guess what? I love them both. I think I love my cheap smart watch more than the Gear. The stylus works as well as the S-Pen (for my needs) and I actually got a 3-pack with extra nibs. (Side note: the cheapest Gear watch is currently running about $350 for the watch and at least $7/month for the line.)

The watch is what I use the most. It does everything the Gear did and it works smoothly. I mainly use it to track my fitness, read messages, monitor sleep patterns - you know, snitch on myself to Big Brother.  It does keep me motivated to move more during the day. I am also going to be able to show my doctors how poor my sleeping routine is. I don't think they realize how bad my insomnia has gotten.

I love having a stylus (or 3) only because of all the freaky AI stuff that is on the new phones. I think I spent more time the first day playing with the AI drawing apps than I did using the phone for anything else. I'm such a child. (And, yes, I know that this whole cool AI thing is another stage in the boiling frog situation that will be our demise as citizens.)

Honestly, I am tempted to stand right outside a cellphone store to warn people against getting expensive watches and pens for their devices. Most phone accessories are "Gotcha" buys or temptation buys - especially when you get them from the service providers.

When I was checking out during the phone purchase and having to nope through all the teaser sales, I noticed how expensive everything was. An Otterbox case cost more that part of my monthly grocery budget. The extra chargers and cables and SD cards... All so ridiculously priced. The first thing I buy for a new phone is a case and the second thing is a screen protector. I got both for under $40

Going back and looking at the accessories from the service provider (and this is with their "special sale pricing"), the total for a phone case, 1 screen protector and 1 charging block (cable not included) is $98 (or $135 without the sale). 

I have not gotten everything I need yet (I will stagger the purchases for my budget!), but the total for:

  • the case (I got it) with a sliding camera cover
  • 2 charging blocks with 2 cables
  • 3 multi-nib stylus' with additional nibs
  • 2 screen protectors (from the IQ Shield brand I used with my last phone)
... that all comes to around $65. My brother gave me a charging block and the phone came with a cable so I don't have to sweat that for now.

Once I get everything I need for my phone, I am at the very least about $500 ahead of what my provider would have charged me. I'm already mad about having to pay off the phone in installments. The next time one of my credit cards makes an offer, I will be paying off my provider and making the payments to my card...

As always when I think about the cost of things, I come back to dear Katt Williams.

You have to laugh about it to keep from crying.

Cellphones are no longer optional. They are no longer something that people get just as a status symbol (well, I can't speak for my iPhone brothers and sisters!); they are a necessity. My phone is my connection to my family, doctors, creditors, etc. I can't even buzz visitors into our building without a phone.

I prefer a chunky look over a girly style

Even though I have to have a cellphone, I realize that I don't need the fanciest one. I don't need the cool watch or pricey earbuds or blinged out case. I need the phone and for everything else I want, I can cheap out. For instance, if I have to, I could replace the cheap watch at least 10 or 11 times for the cost of the Gear. And that's if I get a really decent budget watch... To be fair, if the watch lasts me at least a year, I will be happy.

I am really glad that I cheaped out on everything about my phone this time. Here's looking forward to another 7 or 8 years!

Peace

--Free


Monday, September 23, 2024

My S8 Plus Lasted (Almost) 8 Years

My S8 Plus is was a great  good one, and it was a big part of my life-change situation. I feel a bit attached to it(as I do with anything that cost me a good amount).

Back in 2017, when I left my almost-lifelong home of Alaska, my S8 died just as I was packing to go to the airport. One of the first things I did when I got here to my new home state, was to get a new phone. There was no way I could be without a phone, right? I was in a new place, trying to find an apartment, and trying to pull together the loose pieces of my life. I had to have a phone.

Because my old (and it was old) Samsung Note phone died just as I was getting ready to leave Alaska, I'd grabbed one of those to-go phones from the phone center on the way to the airport. It was just something to get me through the plane ride and the car ride to my brother's house. And it lasted just about that long! I mean, it was literally starting to glitch on the ride to the local phone store...

If you have read my blog even randomly, you know that I don't like change. I'm a person who likes stability and routine. If you want to set your clock, just match it to my daily routine. As a matter of fact, one of the reasons I don't as much TV since I moved here is because the basic network channel numbers are different than those in Alaska. I'm dead serious. (Even though I have just now picked out a new phone, I am already upset about some of the changes.)

So, I started using the S8 Plus in July 2017. A long while back, it stopped getting updates, but it still worked fine. A few weeks ago, it started acting a little bit of a fool. I'd have to restart it quite often. Also, because it had aged out of any updates, most of my important apps no longer worked on it. And when you don't drive or have the best of health, you use a lot of apps - apps for almost everything.

Anyway, you get it. I need my phone. Also, I don't have a house phone (or didn't).

A few days ago, I got an urgent computer message from one of my brothers. No one had been able to reach my cell phone - and I'd recently ditched my house phone (which was a mistake, I realize).  He sounded like he had been about to have the police do a welfare check. My family. So dramatic... Anyway, I had to get onto one of my other emergency calling apps and let everyone know that I was okay. We realized that I could receive texts even though I couldn't get or receive calls... Weird business. (I immediately opted back into my landline service!)

So it was time for a new phone. Of course it was. Because I can afford a new one, right? Wrong. Anyway... I went ahead and picked out the S24 phone and chose my carrier's rip-off installment plan. Maybe I will win a lottery and pay the darned thing off.

I will never understand how "regular" (aka non-trillionaires) can afford to replace their phones every time a new one drops - literally or figuratively. Not only have I had the same phone since I got it, but I have the same protective case. The only thing I've ever replaced was the screen protector and the finger-ring-holder thing on the back. You know I was mad when I had to find a new case and all.

Thankfully, I found a decent protective case for a affordable price. What I love is that it includes a sliding camera cover and a kickstand. The kickstand probably won't last but it's a start. The screen protector wasn't too expensive.

My little brother wondered why I didn't use my current phone as a trade-in. I told him that I don't think my cellular provider will give me much for it and also, it still kind of works so... I'll keep it as a backup for now. Who knows how decent the new phone is or is not. I'm over here, praying that it is half as good as the S8 was.

Who knows when my new phone will ship. The carrier already has my initial payment so they aren't in a hurry. I think they might be mad that I opted out of any accessories or additional services. I'm lucky I could afford to buy a case after I got the phone. I feel like Katt Williams right about now.

Well, one good thing about this new phone is that it comes with 7 years' of updates (if the good Lord is willing that I'll still be here!). If my S8 had the same, it might still be working perfectly.

Before I go, this post about cellphones wouldn't be complete without some Android vs iPhone humor, so:

My brother is always talking about how great iPhones are. When he brought it up this time, I had a smack-down ready: "They must be since you get one every year." (I hardly ever have a good comeback like that one. Almost NEVER.)

Peace
-- Free



P.S.: That title about "almost 8 years"? I might have to update that. This S8 isn't completely dead yet!

Monday, September 02, 2024

Say It Ain’t So, Lavazza! (UPDATE 9-10-24)

(I know it's spelled "Selezione" but I always spell it the way I say it!)


**UPDATE 8/10/14:

I have come back to eat a light helping of crow. After giving the Italian Dark Roast a fair try - why not, since I had so many free bags? - I have to admit that it's tasting better. I won't say that it is the same as  Gran Selzione, but it's good enough that I wouldn't be surprised if Lavazza was only testing our taste buds. Maybe they only changed the look of the packaging but not everything about the flavor??? I could see that. Like I said, this is starting to taste better and better to me. I can also find this version for better prices than with the Gran Selzione. So there is that...


UPDATE:

My eBay purchases were all duds. I had to return them. The sellers did the same thing the Amazon seller did: substituted that icky Italian Roast for the Gran Selzione. Trying to be slick like Rick...

Apparently, there is no Gran Selzione to be had anywhere - unless those 90 dollar bags on eBay are the real deal, and I don't love any coffee that much!



 I feel as if I have lost a good friend. I haven't, thankfully, but I just learned that Lavazza is discontinuing their Gran Selzione roast. I had hoped that I was just hearing rumors but... I got confirmation straight from someone in customer service for Lavazza. 


In case you missed it, this is the heartbreaking part:

Such sad news...

I'm not a coffee snob but I do have my preferences. I like a very dark roast with a bit of sweetness and notes of chocolate and a smooth flavor.

If you go looking for the flavor description of Gran Selzione, you usually run across something like this:

chocolate, intense, chocolate &
out of stock!
That describes Gran Selzione perfectly. You know what it does not describe? The Italian Roast that Lavazza has "swapped" in... I know because I got 3 free bags of that stuff courtesy of Amazon (a seller sent me the Italian because they ran out of Gran Selzione. The nerve!) I even got a free bag of the Italian Extra Dark. I haven't tried that one yet.

The Italian Roast is not horrible but it comes nowhere near the flavor of Gran Selzione. It is about as much like Gran Selzione as some influencers are like the photos they post. Come on, now!

 It is so unlike Gran Selzione that I gave away 2 of the free bags. I'd already opened one bag so I tried adding a little bit of Dutch chocolate powder to see if that helped. Did it? Not really.

A "hint" so subtle, I can't even taste it...
I was so miserable that my brother was laughing at me for taking it personally. (I was over here practically singing "Nothing Compares 2 U"!) He did make the great suggestion that I get over to eBay pronto and order some Gran Selzione before prices go up. That was some good looking out, bro! And yes, I was able to get a few bags without blowing my budget. But now, I have to find an affordable replacement for when I run out.

I'm over here being mad at whoever at Lavazza made this stupid decision. But I'm going to dry my eyes and take a deep breath. I have to get back out there to find something halfway good enough to replace my Gran Selzione. I have one picked out but it's not the most affordable coffee I know of. That is Jim's Sweet Love blend. Illy probably has something but I know that won't be affordable...

For now, it's goodbye Gran Selzione.

Peace

--Free

Friday, August 30, 2024

Old Pains & Praying for a Forgiving Heart

Have you ever had the past reach out and tap you on the shoulder? Like, "Psst, hey you. Remember that time when...?" And it's rarely a good "time when". Yeah. Anyway.


 I recently got a voicemail from someone out of my past. I let the call go to voicemail because, apparently, telemarketers have found my number. Yay. 

Anyway, when I checked the message, I didn't recognize the voice but it was male. The caller's message was aggressively friendly - although "friendly" is not the word. Maybe I should say the person sounded as if they were being friendly. In a weirdly aggressive way. Still, I didn't recognize the name. They were talking as if they were putting on an act for someone. Like, I said, it was weird. Weirder, this message said something about the person having once been a "best friend" of mine. I've only ever had a few "best" friends. All of them are female and 2 of them are dead.

I had my brother call the number and it turned out to be someone from quite a ways back in my past. And this person did not end up being a very good friend (of any variety). As a matter of fact, their last interaction with me seemed to be the start of some of my worst years.

Even people who were not super-close friends (more like very fond acquaintances) had my back when I needed it. This person who called had not had my back at all. As a matter of fact, they turned their back on me when I needed it.

At any rate, I did make an attempt to return the phone call as a polite courtesy. The call went to voicemail. Weirder and weirder, am I right? It's probably a good thing I got voicemail. I was having a really bad "brain day" so I'm sure I might have been incoherent in my stress.

That strange phone call/voicemail dredged up some old pains. At the time, I had too much going on in my life to dwell on how the person had treated (or not treated) me. I left a job that had been important to me and the parting was not nice. My sister was newly coping with her sudden bad health and I was trying to figure out how to stay on top of the mortgage and other bills we had. I was really trying to hold it all together. (And God did bring us through that storm. I did come out on the other side feeling pretty beat up.)

In a space of what feels now like the blink of an eye, a lot happened. I lost (quit) my job, sold the house, relocated for another job, almost lost my sister, sold the new house, ended up married, divorced, relocated back to my home state, started another much better) job, and became seriously ill. It really was a lot.

As I said, God brought me through and the troubles only strengthened my faith. And the storms weren't done with me yet. 

Just as life seemed to be calming down for me, my sister was diagnosed with breast cancer, then we lost my older brother, then I lost my sister, and then I just felt lost.

My best friends - the true ones - went through most of this with me as they were all going through their own stuff. We shared encouragement, prayers, tears, and laughter - because, somehow, we could always find some laughter! Then I lost my sister. Less than a month later, I lost one of my best friends, and my other best friend relocated out of state. 

Do you know who I did not hear from? The voicemail "best friend". I don't remember getting any calls of support or condolences - not even a voicemail.

So I guess I am, as the kids say, feeling some kind of way. And not just because of all that I explained but also because this "friend" is a Christian. Just like my husband's family full of ordained robe-wearing, choir-directing saints who forget to be as holy outside the church doors as they are inside them. It's painful to be mistreated by anyone but it's more painful that that person is a Christian brother or sister.

So, for a whole day, I lay around (because it was my day to take the nastiest of my medicines) feeling not only med-sick but heartsick. The voicemail dredged up so much hurt that I was shocked.

Now that I am feeling better and my brain is not misfiring, I am praying that God help me to have a forgiving heart. I don't want to harbor any bad feelings for anyone. So I have decided that maybe this person from my past has changed and was extending an olive branch. (I know that I have given out one or two long-overdue apologies/explanations. I still have a couple of people to reach out to.)

There are some verses I will be re-reading in the next few days - (I ripped these straight from Bible Study Tools):

  • Ephesians 4:32 - Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.
  • Matthew 18:21-22 - Then Peter came up and said to him, “Lord, how often will my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?” Jesus said to him, “I do not say to you seven times, but seventy-seven times.
  • Colossians 3:13 - Bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive.

Not to mention the part of the Lord's Prayer one I pray every morning:

"And forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors." (Matthew 6:12)

Anyway, I am just going to try to leave all the past hurts and bad interactions where they belong: in the past. And I hope to be pleasant and forgiving should I ever talk to that one person again. I do wish them well and I do pray for them.

Peace

--Free

Tuesday, August 20, 2024

Issues I Wish Politicians Campaigned On **UPDATE**

**UPDATE**

I am updating this post with some information from other sources. See each category for the current updates. I will try to continue adding updates (but no promises!).  The update headings will be in boldface red font.



Every election cycle, the politicians focus on the same things: the economy, taxes, abortion, and crime. Those are all worth talking about but I wish someone would start talking about other things that matter to the "regular" men and women.

Here is my list of things I'd like to see become big campaign issues:

Food:

  • Why are we still allowing problematic ingredients into our food products? 
  • Why is high fructose corn syrup in almost everything on store shelves?
  • Why isn't it standard to more clearly label ingredients for what they are? Any salt or sugar under their many names should be noted as salt and sugar. As a matter of fact, every ingredient should be noted for what it really is - additive, preservative, dye, hormone (or hormone-related), etc. Labels should not be able to conceal the true nature or identity of ingredients.
  • If obesity and food-related illnesses are as bad as alcohol and tobacco, why aren't there warning labels on food products? We shouldn't need a degree in chemistry (or whatever) to know that we are eating or drinking something that can cause cancer, stunt growth, or otherwise affect our health. 
  • We need to raise our standards for school lunches to those of places like Japan and France - anywhere that is healthier than ours.
UPDATES (8/25/24)
Consumerism:
  • Why don't we better support and promote items "Made in the USA"? Why don't we make it a standard that the country of origin of items is very clearly noted on products? More than half the stuff in stores (and on Amazon, Walmart, etc) are made in China. Even long-standing brands that consumers think are American-made are no longer made anywhere near the U.S. 
  • In line with the above, why isn't the government encouraging the creation of items Made in the USA? There has to be a reason (not always greed) that manufacturing is being moved to cheaper countries. If we can spend  waste so much money on unnecessary things, can we start moving some of that money to things that really matter? Why aren't we supporting manufacturers of clothing, cars, food products, etc. to do their manufacturing right here in the U.S.? Wouldn't that create more jobs and stimulate local economies? Talk about "Making America Great Again", let's actually do that instead of fighting amongst each other about one political party or the other. 
  • Why aren't we spending money on programs to educate families on spending, budgeting, and other basic financial issues?
  • In line with the above, why don't we sponsor some community programs for people of all ages - but especially the young - to learn about financial issues? 
UPDATES (8/25/24)
Note this piece from that report: "U.S. goods and services trade with China totaled an estimated $758.4 billion in 2022. Exports were $195.5 billion; imports were $562.9 billion. The U.S. goods and services trade deficit with China was $367.4 billion in 2022."


Crime and Community:
  • We spend so much money on policing and jailing while crime rates keep getting worse. Why aren't we allocating some money to programs to avoid the need for more police and jails? How about spending some money to find out why communities have a problem with gang or drug violence. Instead of criminals coming out of jail with poor employment prospects, we hire them to help solve problems with crime. (I remember hearing about criminals with computer skills being used to teach authorities how to avoid certain crimes.)
  • Why aren't we giving more recognition and rewards to people who aren't committing crimes or who are working to prevent crimes in their communities? If we recognize and reward people for their positive impact, maybe more people would work toward that. Right now, criminals get all the attention. (The idea years ago of not glorifying serial killers by giving them nicknames and press attention could work here.) 
  • I am almost positive that the government has its fingers in the entertainment industry. There are lots of movies and music made lauding negative things - extramarital or teen sex, drug use, and other reckless lifestyle choices. Why aren't we making entertainment that promotes faith, moral integrity, or other positive aspects?
  • Citizens/residents of a community should be encouraged/incentivized to help keep that community clean and safe. 
Medical, taxes, and the usual:

I wasn't going to mention these things but... There is so much room for improvement. When I talk to my neighbors (I live in a "senior" building), we often talk about what it's like to be "senior" or elderly in America. Some of the things I hear:
  • Why aren't glasses, hearing aids, and therapy included in medical plans? I have a Medicare Advantage plan that includes free local gym membership. That's nice but I'd rather have free eyeglasses. Vision and hearing are things that tend to diminish with age. 
  • Why are benefits for the elderly and disabled so complicated? Some of my neighbors who are disabled (and receive benefits) would like to work from home or earn extra income some other way (selling handmade items or their skilled services) but are afraid of losing some or all of their benefits. 
  • When is the government going to actually start taxing the rich more than they do the poor? We talk about it all the time but the rich have the money to find and pay for loopholes. The poor end up using tax services set up in booths at Walmart...
Americans First:
  • Any elder assistance, citizens' aid, or other perks should go to American-born citizens first. I'm no expert but I think this is what other 1st-world countries do.
  • Jobs should go first to American-born citizens. This should include job preparation or training.
  • Businesses owned by American-born citizens should be shown preference for benefits, tax cuts, and other perks.
  • Businesses owned by non-American-born people should be required to hire a certain percentage of American-born employees. 
  • Businesses owned by non-American-born people should be required to keep the majority of income in the U.S. economy.
  • In place of the above 3 items, the U.S. should implement a "match" system with other countries. Whatever they require of American-born citizens in their country, we require the same for any of their citizens living in our country. 
  • If American-based corporations/businesses send money, jobs, or other things out of the U.S., they should be taxed at a higher rate.
The 99% vs the 1%:
  • No corporate officer of businesses/companies should make more than a certain grouped percentage of employees. This would include the well-known "golden parachutes" and other perks that reward people unfairly.
  • No individual household should pay more in taxes (by percentile) than major corporate officers and/or large business owners. 
  • Large corporations/businesses should be required to contribute a certain amount to the communities they operate in. These contributions (outside of employment) could be in funding hospitals, safety services (police, fire & rescue), neighborhood cleanup, and any other beneficial services. Contributions could also be in the form of funding for local educators and educational facilities.
  • The same as above should go for any corporations and/or large businesses using the resources of a community or having other impacts on a community.
  • The 99% should not be unduly burdened by the pursuits and/or profits of the 1%. 
And my biggest gripe:

Lobbyists. These special advocates have too much freedom and power. Their influence is totally out of sync with that of the average citizen. It's because of them that we have many of the problems mentioned in this post. They have, in effect, a monopoly on power in Washinton that affects too many aspects of the daily life of regular people like myself. 

How do we change the way healthcare is run when politicians are afraid of the lobbying power (and money) or the healthcare industry? The same goes for making changes in the food (and food labeling) industry, banking, housing, and so on. For every aspect of the life of an average citizen, there is a lobbyist for an industry or organization that has more power. 

For everything I've talked about, there can be no improvement as long as there are lobbyists. Or - and this is the biggest - anyone with the money to influence a once well-meaning politician. Someone might start out all fired up to make changes but, once they take their seat at the table (of power), they come in reach of money. Big money. And money influences everything.


I know that I sound like a dreamer. I know that there are no easy answers to a lot of the things that bother the average citizen but we have to start somewhere. 

Whenever I see a documentary about how some other country deals with crime or education or working parents, I wonder why we couldn't do better right here at home in America.

If you have some time, just go and do a search on things like "wasteful government spending"; "American school lunches compared to other Westernized countries"; and "European food labeling vs American food labeling". A real eye-opener is when you start looking at "American ingredients not allowed in European countries."

Some readers might think I am promoting a form of communism. I'm not. I am suggesting we begin normalizing a form of empowerment for all citizens, regardless of finances, power, or social visibility. We should encourage capitalization and reward hard work. We should not penalize anyone whose hard work does not give them greater financial rewards.

Peace
--Free


Saturday, August 17, 2024

I'm Such A Neophile (Like My Niece Was)

 Calling myself a neophile sounds snooty - and it's not entirely accurate. Neophiles "have a love of things new and trendy". I have a love of things new, old, or forgotten - trendy or not. Maybe "dabbler" is a better term. I'm a curious dabbler. Yes, that sounds much better.

One reason I like to learn about new things is that it's a way to keep my brain occupied and active. One of my first doctors told me to always find new stuff to think about and do and he thought of it as exercising a muscle. The way I see it, an idle brain makes you old.

Anyway.

In the past year, I have looked into using camel hump fat for skin and hair care; learned about floral waxes; started using boar and bamboo bristle brushes; started making my own perfumes, and now I am making my own tonka bean and vanilla bean oils. 

It wasn't Xmas w/out a 
Gabby-made treat

My family sometimes says I can be childlike in my curiosity. I take that as a compliment. I love learning about new stuff. If I were wealthy, I'd probably spend all my time traveling to different places to see how other people think and play and work and just go about their lives. 

Gabs did a chair makeover
My younger brother made me feel wonderful once when he said that I sometimes see things differently from anyone else he knows. He said this to me when we were browsing a local thrift store. I spotted a beautiful old buffet cabinet and said that it would look great in my living room. My brother was confused until I explained that I could set the television on the top of the buffet and use all the little cabinets to display plants and photos and little bits of decor. It would be something old blending with things new. He thought that was a great idea. (Unfortunately,we couldn't afford the cabinet but I think about it often.)

Her first cake for a cousin's 
birthday. Everything edible
 but the truck!
Laugh at me if you want but I have usually managed to impress my family and friends with the homemade gifts I've given them. My sisters-in-law and nieces still look forward to getting a new perfume from me. Every batch is original and, since I wing the recipes, they cannot be duplicated - even by me. For the coming Christmas, I will be giving all the men boar bristle brushes for their hair (or beards) and the ladies will be getting floral wax balms to use on their face and lips.

The only other person in our family who shared my love of dabbling was my late niece Gabby. She was far more creative than I and she was great at crafting. She made beautiful cakes for the children's birthdays. In memory of her, I have scattered this post with photos of just some of her earliest creations.

When people were making those baby shower gifts crafted from diapers and other cute objects, my niece outshone them all. Just before she passed, her boyfriend had gifted her one of those Cricut machines. She never really got to use it but I was so excited to see what she would have come up with.

A baby shower gift.
Everything useable.
About fifteen years before she died, my niece made handmade Christmas gifts for every one of the family living in Alaska. All the ladies got a box of lotion bars. Some were in the shape of the state flag and some were shaped like the state flower (the Forget Me Not). She had scented them with lavender, peach, lily, and other lovely fragrances. She was an amazing, creative, thoughtful, and generous woman. I miss her presence in my life every single day.

Another baby shower gift
A plane.
I truly believe that God blesses us with our sense of imagination and wonder. Those are the best forms of entertainment there is. I rarely let my brain run idle. My thoughts are sometimes jumbled which can result in hilarious journal entries. And if you guys could see these blog posts before I clean them up...

I'm pretty excited right now to put together these homemade gifts for my family. As I said, I am using floral waxes to make moisturizers and lip balms for the ladies. Since the ladies so loved their perfumes last year, maybe this year, I will make scents for the guys in the family - maybe some colognes and beard oils???

Another thing about being a dabbler is that it staves off depression. I am already prone to that mental nuisance but right now, waiting to get my dentures and watching the weather turn gray, I know the blues will take over if I let them. 

At any rate, I'm going to keep on keeping as busy as my health lets me. Making the balms should take some time and I know I have to be patient with the vanilla and  Tonka oils. My next thing is to start another Bible study. I haven't seriously done a study since last year. 

By the way, as I was going through photos of Gabby's creations, my mood lifted. Just thinking of her makes me smile. Our family get-togethers won't be the same without one of her treats. Here are some more:

I can't remember the occasion but it was perhaps a July 4th celebration. She made these little edible hats -

 

- that held more edible treats inside! Fantastic, right?!?
This cake was for an Uncle's birthday. He had a sweet tooth and M&M's were a favorite of his. Gabby did it again.
BTW - that stick is not holding
up the M&M bag; it's just something
on the table Gabby was working on.
This is for another get-together - for someone's birthday, I think. I know it was for someone who liked gaming.
Gabby is gone now and until I see her again, I have some really good memories of her. Like her, I want to always keep curious and interested and dabbling. Maybe I will leave something behind that my loved ones can have as a tangible memory.

Peace
--Free